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Never Again 2/10/2005
I met my last girlfriend in a 12-step recovery meeting in
February of 2003. I asked her out and she immediately gave
me her phone number before the meeting was over. Laster
that afternoon I called her and we went to a movie and then
took a drive in the mountains. We drove up to about 14, 000
feet in the dark in a snowstorm. My vehicle was new at the
time and was Christened properly that ...
3 Comentarios, 219 Vistas,
7 Votos
,2.28 Puntuación |
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To Screw or not To Screw??? 29/9/2005
So I broke up with my last girlfriend about a year ago but
we are great Friends. The question is this, the sex is incredible
(and I'm not just saying that because I've had
MORE than my fair share) and we have somehow fell into the
"Friends with befits zone"! Now don't
get me wrong, that is all good, but I think she is substituting
the sex for the past relationship. Do you think it's ...
4 Comentarios, 349 Vistas,
9 Votos
,3.00 Puntuación |
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You Won't Believe This One! 27/9/2005
When I first heard about it, I thought that thouhght that
it was just a joke. But it wasn't a joke. On October 24,
2005, over 3 milion men nation-wide have agreed to...
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break up with their girlfriends/wives on the first ever
"NATIONAL DUMP YOUR WOMAN DAY." aka "DUMP-DAY."
This is an idea that was created by an international group
called "10 SOCIETY, " that is dedicated to ...
4 Comentarios, 443 Vistas,
18 Votos
,2.85 Puntuación |
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TELL THE TRUTH! 25/9/2005
How can people say that people should be let down easily?
People need to be let down harshly. Its easier just to be
told "I dont like" you then to be told "you're
really nice but...." where the "but"
can be followed by any one of hundreds of possibilities.
The absolute worst is when they claim "we can still
be friends" because 99% of the time they wont actually
remain friends with you ...
1 Comentarios, 150 Vistas,
9 Votos
,3.43 Puntuación |
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a work in progress... 13/9/2005
Light from a street lamp streamed in the window as she lay
quietly in bed. She looked at the ceiling and thought about
all that had happened in the past eight days. She was at home-well,
it was her parent's home-but she thought of it as hers.
She looked the her room and thought about her life. About
the tiny life growing inside her, and him-the father of
the . He was coming to get her ...
0 Comentarios, 236 Vistas,
7 Votos
,3.80 Puntuación |
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ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!! 10/9/2005
Hello all,
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Here's a bit of a break-up/ rant-n-rave all bundled
into one.
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I've been politely, but firmly asked to apologize
for being me or it's off...
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"Well, don't let the door hit you in the ass."
was my direct response.
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Over the past year he's said the following:
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"I fall for the really screwed up girls." (Apparently, ...
2 Comentarios, 264 Vistas,
14 Votos
,5.22 Puntuación |
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More than once. 9/9/2005
I've recently, in the last couple of years anyway had
a relationship with a girl that was young and not really
the most stable person. You know the issues. But she sure
was fun. So I put up with some of the crap that you normally
do in a relationship to make it work and then some. We we're
together for about 2 years and in that time we had split up
about 4 times with the 4th being the last ...
0 Comentarios, 251 Vistas,
8 Votos
,2.55 Puntuación |
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What's a BITCH 2 do? 4/9/2005
Hey, I have a question, if u meet a girl that is cool people
2 be around but u r not just into her in a sexual way and u tell
her that "we can be cool friends and hang out or whatever
but as 4 sex between us that shit is not going 2 happen b/c
im not feeling u like that" ain't that kinda straight
2 the fucking point? Well I guess not because I meet this
girl through another friend of mine ...
2 Comentarios, 119 Vistas,
7 Votos
,1.51 Puntuación |
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how do you recover 4/9/2005
ok here's the story i was married for 5 years together
almost six, 3 years ago we had some problems and split for
6 months but still dated during this time he started an affair
with coworker, i moved back in after 6 months both agreed
to work things out only he was still seeing her a couple months
pass now i'm pregnant all durning pregnancy he affair
didn't end(i was clueless) then when my ...
2 Comentarios, 339 Vistas,
3 Votos
,1.47 Puntuación |
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Easiest Way 1/9/2005
I've never had a problem breaking off a relationship
with someone. Or for that matter, having someone break
one off with me.
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I've always tried to be honest about what I exoect from
the relationship from the beginning. That way, there really
is no surprise if it doesn't work out.
0 Comentarios, 236 Vistas,
6 Votos
,2.51 Puntuación |
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How do you convince yourself there's something else to move onto? 1/9/2005
Ive recently broken up from a 2 yr relationship, well actually
i was dumped for her ex which she had always admitted she
couldnt cut from her life as a friend. To say I was "in
love" with this woman doesnt seem to sum up the enormity
of my feelings for her, I literally worshipped her and for
a while we had it great. You know how you have a mental check
list of the things you'd like in your ...
8 Comentarios, 189 Vistas,
5 Votos
,4.12 Puntuación |
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Break-ups... Painful, but not the End... 31/8/2005
Having been married almost five years (with a two year engagement
prior) I thought things were going great. I never would
have guessed just how far from the truth I really was.
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My ex-wife came to me two months before our five year anniversary
and told me she wanted to separate, to figure out exactly
what she wanted.
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Naturally I overreacted a little, it was as ...
0 Comentarios, 196 Vistas,
5 Votos
,5.75 Puntuación |
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breaking up is so easy to do 30/8/2005
As I think back on my last relationship, I realized leaving
him was the best thing to do. He was rude, critical, and all
together mean at all times. He was 37 me 21 so age diff made
a big prob. He was retired from the military. 16 years of
it made him very precise about everything and when things
did not go his way he huffed and puffed about it. It went to
the extreme about everything not ...
4 Comentarios, 160 Vistas,
9 Votos
,4.07 Puntuación |
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thrown under the bus 27/8/2005
Been with a girl for 2 years, but she meets a 30-something
from Spain ("i hail from spain, sir" - chuckle)
and decides that's what she wants. Talk about getting
thrown under the bus!! How are women so beautifl and kind,
as well as such skilled torture artists? I'll never
know....
0 Comentarios, 209 Vistas,
3 Votos
,2.45 Puntuación |
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A Slow Tumble Down The Hill ! 26/8/2005
I'v known this guy for almost all my life.Went to primary
school with him but we never had anything going.He was like
three grade ahead of me. We were just pals, neighbours
for years. They moved. We didnt see for over ten years. He
went to high school in some other city and i was still in this
city. We met again in university. he had started university
someplace else and problems with his ...
2 Comentarios, 312 Vistas,
8 Votos
,3.01 Puntuación |
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moving on 23/8/2005
what does it take to keep your mind from think about that
past relationship .You know u did the right thing but hard
to move on to something new . What do you think?
0 Comentarios, 154 Vistas,
4 Votos
,3.63 Puntuación |
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Another Sad, Sad Break Up Story 22/8/2005
Kristine Slaterback, AKA Kristine Allen and Jeff Kujat
are no more. My heart was broken again for a second time by
the same woman Auagust 15th, 2005. We first met Iin April
of '99 through a silly little Yahoo personal ad...Sweet
Teddybear Seeks Friend To Cuddle, said the headline. She
said she liked teddybears and the rest is history. It was
love at first sight, never in my life have I met ...
1 Comentarios, 181 Vistas,
9 Votos
,5.14 Puntuación |
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How does one move on 20/8/2005
Ok i was with my g/f for 6 months known eachother for 9 months.
Anyway we broke up like 3 weeks ago and im trying to figure
out how to get over her. I mean i have tried cutting her out
completely she just wont let me, i tried just being friends
but i get jealous, how can i move on if all i think about is
her. I mean i did love her so how can i get over her.
4 Comentarios, 291 Vistas,
6 Votos
,3.08 Puntuación |
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What not yo do 20/8/2005
A day before our anniversary it was a gut feeling i had. It
didnt seem right and she was a mile away. I went outside then
went for a walk. Stepped into a bar to have a drink. Another
beer later I was holding hands with another girl.
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Some time later I was awake on a bed with a girl naked next
to me. I got dressed and left.
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A story most people liken to, worst thing ...
0 Comentarios, 123 Vistas,
3 Votos
,2.94 Puntuación |
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how do u break up? 17/8/2005
i always have been up front wit it n at first try to work it
out until there is no more you can do
1 Comentarios, 318 Vistas,
2 Votos
,1.73 Puntuación |
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y do people find it soo hard to get over someone? 17/8/2005
da way i see it if someone breaks up wit they must not care
for u n if love does not go both ways it will never work at all
0 Comentarios, 46 Vistas,
3 Votos
,1.96 Puntuación |
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I can love but I don't believe in attachments... 17/8/2005
Its not good to ever attacch your self so much that you know
some one else because you don't know what can happen.
Change in health a truamatic hardship or demonic possession.
I had a tough one near death lost my physical edge as well
as my wits so when she left it was all a guess of stress. Made
me stronger. A bbuddy even told me he f><kd her and
still sees her kindof to detour my ...
0 Comentarios, 43 Vistas,
3 Votos
,2.45 Puntuación |
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closure 17/8/2005
Some people think that breaking up is something that only
one of the couple has to decide on. They seem to think that
they can just make that decision and then ignore the other
person. That's a very childish attitude. If you want
to break up, at least give the other person closure. Tell
them straight and make it clear but give them closure, otherwise
you're storing up trouble.
0 Comentarios, 633 Vistas,
32 Votos
,6.80 Puntuación |
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sucks 13/8/2005
breaking up sucks ass with a passion!!!!!!! especially
wen u had the best person ever!!!
2 Comentarios, 179 Vistas,
10 Votos
,2.79 Puntuación |
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love hurts 13/8/2005
i love my hubby but hes gon out of town too much we have grown
apart what to do ??? so how to tell him well i took out a add
in his fav magazine it sai: to honey .... with all your time
at work and out of town i regret to inform you that i do not
love u anymore you should recave divorce papers at the door
in just a few hrs. to make sure he fornd this in the magazine
i high lighted in ...
2 Comentarios, 223 Vistas,
17 Votos
,2.28 Puntuación |
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Just say it 12/8/2005
I had a difficult situation to face a couple of years back
when I knew I had to say something to someone to clear up a
problem that had been weighing on my mind for far too long.
It wasn't a relationship breakup, but the princple
is the same.
A friend of mine asked me one evening if I'd had that
talk which I'd been putting off. I told him I hadn't
done it that day because it wasn't a ...
1 Comentarios, 155 Vistas,
6 Votos
,3.08 Puntuación |
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What is the proper etiquette for breaking up with a 11/8/2005
How do you break up with someone who was a friend with benefits
when the only reason you were a friend in the first place
was purely sexual? You have no desire to hang out with this
person on a completely platonic level and when you 2 first
became involved you made it crystal clear that this was
about sex & not a mutual bond shared between 2 people.
3 Comentarios, 296 Vistas,
8 Votos
,4.17 Puntuación |
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Breaking up is tough..but being USED is worse! 11/8/2005
My boyfriend left a week ago. We were together for 8 yrs.
I always thought it was "one-sided", me being
the one that was always trying to hold it all together. Continually
appeasing him so as not to cause any friction in the relationship.
He continued to lose job after job. It would take him a long
time to begin looking for the next job. Which meant I was
the sole provider in most of the ...
2 Comentarios, 157 Vistas,
6 Votos
,2.23 Puntuación |
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Does anyone feel this same way? 10/8/2005
After years of long distance the parting of ways is turning
out to be just as hard or harder than the effort it took to
stay together after years of liveing on different seaboards.
Thinking that it may be fateful that we should have been
together regardless of the distance between us, I wonder
if it was meant to be, and if it really is....will it prove
itself after we have spent some time ...
2 Comentarios, 88 Vistas,
1 Votos
,1.10 Puntuación |
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Why so nice? 8/8/2005
I was dating a girl for the better part of 3 years when I found
out that the reason I continued dating her in the first place
was a complete lie. We had dated for a couple of weeks and
I decided that she really wasn't "the one"
for me and broke it off with her. Then she tells me she's
pregnant. So after long consideration I thought I'd
be a man and take care of my responsiblities. 3 months ...
0 Comentarios, 173 Vistas,
4 Votos
,2.47 Puntuación |